4 Words

Have you ever thought about what the 4 saddest words might be at the end of your life? Four seems like such a small number, I’m sure you are thinking, “How much sadness can 4 words contain?” Try these 4 words, “I wish I had” and then fill in the blank.

We all have things we dream of doing, some may seem to be crazy, some just seem to be out of reach. What makes them crazy? What keeps them out of reach?

Are your dreams crazy because no one else would understand? We have all heard the saying, “Dance like no one is watching”, follow your dreams the same way. Smile while you journey toward happiness, remembering that happiness is the journey. No one wants to get to the end of life and say “I wish I had, but no one would have understood.” You understand, and when you smile, so do those around you.

What keeps your dreams just beyond your reach? Is it money, time, lack of resources? These are excuses. There are people living their dreams with little to no money. Just try Googling the Moneyless Man. I’m not suggesting you go to the extreme and try what these people have done. I am saying money is not a valid excuse for not following your dreams. Take it in baby steps, simplify your life, save the money you would have used to dine out and eat at home instead. Sell things that really don’t serve a purpose in your life anymore, I did and it is a very emotionally liberating experience. There are a whole host of ways to find the money to follow your passion.

Time, the most important thing to note about time is that we make time for the things that are important to us. If you are truly passionate about something you will find the time to pursue it.

Lack of resources is nothing more than us not being resourceful. I’m guilty of this. You hit a road block and instead of finding an alternate route you give up and go home. The latest greatest in GPS technology has live traffic updates that give us alternatives. Treat the obstacles you face the same way. If one route doesn’t work, look for the alternative.

Here is an example from my own life. I recently discovered an online educational opportunity that I wanted to participate in and when I looked at the cost involved I knew it was not in my budget. I could have given up and said it just wasn’t meant to be. I chose to contact the business and offer a trade, their coursework and certification for my services as a writer. Guess what, they replied with a two thumbs up. I’m smiling, they are smiling. They have a need, I have a dream. We both get what we want. This is just one simple example of how to be resourceful.

In reality, the only thing keeping us from our dreams is us and our fear: fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of the unknown. So what are your excuses for not following your dreams? What steps can you take today to make those dreams come true? Each step you take gets you one step closer to realizing your dreams and even closer to the biggest smile you will ever wear. If you still think you just can’t follow your dreams than maybe you need new dreams or maybe you just need to change your perspective on what really is possible. You are born with unlimited potential! You cannot fail, you can only learn!

I would love to hear what it is you dream of doing, or maybe you have already accomplished something that was a dream…leave a comment..share your dreams..


Being grateful opens the channels through which abundance flows into our lives. That is worth repeating..Being “Grateful” opens the channels through which “Abundance” flows into our lives. The simplest way to fill your life with more of what you love, need, or want is to be grateful for what you already have in your life. We can’t expect to bring abundance into our lives if we aren’t grateful for what we already have. No matter where we are in life, there is always something to be grateful for. Each day that you are alive is a day for a new beginning. Not sure where to begin, clarity comes with action–not in thought, so whatever it is you have been thinking about doing, just do it! What does gratitude do for us? Here is a short list of what happens when you live each day from an attitude of gratitude.

  • An attitude of gratitude reminds us what is really important in life. Those little hand-prints your child just left on the window you just cleaned will soon be nothing but a distant memory.
  • An attitude of gratitude reminds us of all the wonderful things we have, all the special people that are part of our lives, and can turn a bad day into a good day. Put it to the test, the next time things don’t seem to be going the way you want stop and think about everything you have to be grateful for. I bet you can’t do it without smiling!
  • An attitude of gratitude helps to heal. When we spend time each day counting our blessings, we are less stressed and when we are less stressed our bodies are better able to heal.
  • An attitude of gratitude reminds us to say thank you to everyone throughout the day and throughout our lives. Saying thank you is a simple act of gratitude and isn’t always about the words, sometimes thank you comes in the form of a smile.

Start each morning with just a few minutes looking at your life and everything you have to be grateful for, begin by being grateful that you are able to take the time to be grateful. You are alive, be alive. End each day with a few minutes of gratitude and see the abundance in your dreams.